Life is short..Work is part of us not we are part of work

Our GCOO, Dr.Wong has passed away after suffering from massive 2nd stroke within a year and extended on life support equipment..Age at 50, leaving behind wife and 2 teenage girls. Could he have over worked? could he have been better off if he didnt had so much load on his shoulder?

Heard also this is the 2nd Cs level staff that had demise in SGH..Guess work load is very heavy and too fast paced...They are always taking care of others but not themselves..

Morale of the story to Janice and to all, learn to say no, learn to stop and rest when needed and learn to take joy in all and work at your own pace...

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporelocalnews/view/1059760/1/.html

Peace Homage

Yesterday was vesak day. Did 3 steps 1 bow with hubby for first time, it was self satisfying and tiring at the same time. For it was almost 10years ago that i last did it. However it feels great to persist and complete it without missing a steps or bow. Hope to do it again. Have to be grateful to the body for without it i will not be able to complete it too..Thanks body and thanks to hubby who inspire me to persist on. Happy vesak day..

Aging and Sickness

My most beloved grandfather is in Hospital again..Yes again. Due to bloat of stomach and unable to do business, both big and small.

In my memory, he was always eating those traditional food like: Pek dou her (super smelly for those who dont eat fish), loh thng (braised for weeks chinese bacon meat)..Guess what must really take care and listen to the body before it gave up. Just like my hubby whom was attacked by acute gout and arithitis 3 weeks ago. It was so painful for him that his eyes was in tears..Cant lift up leg at all, cant sit down, cant bent, cant go toilet, not even the sitting ones, swells and inflammanted.

As the Buddha teaching goes, one must always look inside and look outside for healing. Look inside, reflect, listen to your body and you shall be healed

Amitaba

Distance makes one fonder

My dearest hubby has flew off last night to Hundary and will be away for 1 week. Now i have starts to miss him. Since we married and move in to stay together, we have never being separated from each other for so long. WE have always being doing things together and seeing each other 24*7*365 days...OMG...think of it, distance really makes one fonder. ..only then we felt the absence and the needs for him / her to be around..We will then appreciate each other more.

On the other hand, lucky for first time he is only going for 1 week hahah...if first time goes 1 year..think i will cry like anything...but also must hold back for it is for his own good.

God bless him there and come back safe and sound.

Dear, take care of your hurt knee..dun injure it too much again